Living it and Loving it

Growing in purity is a day-by-day process that continues throughout your life. The more you start practicing purity, the more you'll fall in love with the peace that comes with it. That's why girls dismiss the idea of purity until they discover how fulfilling it is to be loved for the right reasons. When you meet guys who possess the virtue of purity, you'll see a spark in them that is missing in the average guy. 

If you wish to find such a guy, don't kiss anyone you are not dating. Some guys will be turned off by the fact you take your kisses so seriously. But that's a good thing! Many men don't deserve you, and you need to know how to identify them. Without pleasure, a lustful man quickly loses interest. Like a duck that turns its tail and swims away when a bag of bread crumbs is empty, the man whose goal is pleasure finds no need to wait around for a girl who thinks her kisses are priceless. Meanwhile, the man in love experiences the opposite reaction. You'll capture his attention by the very fact that you're not readily available. 

Without question, purity is beautiful. We're not talking about repression or prudishness, but about having a confident and serene sense of dignity and worth. Therefore, hold on to your kisses. The more you save, the less you regret.

Taken from How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul